wow.... ak can you ask for some of the things I want 
Sure I can ask, but I don't think I'll have any more success than you.
The bounce-issue is one that many, if not not most people would define as a must-have for robust email support in virtually any sort of business or organization. The other things you mentioned wanting are also important to lots of folks, but perhaps not quite as universally defined as "must-have".
I would guess that being able to purchase additional email space will eventually happen if for no other reason than it could provide CT with another revenue channel. I have no idea how much work it takes to implement though and I suspect that implementing stuff like that is always much harder in practice than it seems in theory.
The free mailing list thing is kind of a marketing thing. Maybe after analysis, CT might determine that selling additional email space and giving away free mailing list capability is a profitable trade-off. But I'm not sure why they would give up having two revenue channels unless there is a market-driven reason (like CT determines that they have to do so to remain competitive). Frankly, I have no idea how mailing list functionality is handled in other hosting companies. I don't care about mailing list functionality because I can handle that stuff myself through a database and some simple programming/scripting.
I'm not up to speed on the problem involving alias forwarding; I've no idea what the problem is. Guess I haven't run into it yet?